Am a 25yr old lady, my marriage is less than 2 yrs with a 10 months old daughter. Hubby has a female married friend that is close to him, they have been friends even before we got married and all. They do call themselves ‘sweety’,’honey’, and ‘Shugah’.
Initially I complained, but he assured me nothing is goin on, that they are just good friends and nothing more. Even her husband is aware of their friendship. It almost cost serious issues in my home, I decided to let it be, Only God will judge them if it’s more than he is saying it is.
Sometime Last yr, I sent a facebook request to the lady’s husband, the next day hubby came to ask me why will i send a request to her hubby, asking me if am a friend to him or have i ever seen or spoken to him, that will make me send a request to him.
I was shocked by that question, I told him, i just sent the request without anything in mind, since we were all trying to be cool with their friendship.
That issue ended as i canceled the request.Just yesterday after up to a yr of that issue, hubby was telling me how the lady recently brought up the topic again and was still amazed that i could send her hubby a request, unto as she is chatting with my hubby, lemme do the same with hers. She said i was been childish for doing that.
This lady is question seniors me with 6 yrs and has two children, currently pregant for the third.My question is this, was i wrong to send a request? why is she still having that in mind after almost a yr?
Should i go to her office and talk it out with her and really understand her issue with me? Or should i let the sleeping dog lie. Note: They are not having any romantic relationship.
Please What is your advice?